My partner wants me to have an abortion but I do not feel comfortable with that. What should I say because we are both in a difficult situation at the moment?
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Destiny posted January 14if you want to keep the baby, you should talk to your partner about it. Don't do something you don't want to just for someone else. Something like that especially. You could talk about adoption, or if you want to keep the baby, keep it! Depending on what your partner is like, be careful if you want to keep the baby around then or not. 1 Like
Michelle posted January 15You have to do what you feel is best. If you have an abortion when you don't feel you should, could cause you a lot of mental distress. Talk with your partner and explain that you aren't comfortable with what he's asking of you. Talk with your family and friends as well, make sure your support system is there for you. Don't make a quick decision. If you decide that having the baby is best, but you don't feel that you can support a child, there is always adoption. I wish you the best, and I will keep you in my prayers 0 Likes
Felicity posted January 17I'm In the same boat actually I recently found out I'm pregnant my partner and I are no longer together he had broken up with me cause of this BUT he still wants me to get an abortion which I will not be doing for my reasons. He still fights me about this but I plan on him signing his parenteral rights away and he won't need to worry about child support since he doesn't want to be part of the kids life. it's a different situation for everyone and honestly it's up to us to decide and it's hard since another human is involved I hope things goes well with you and you guys figure everything out and they accept your reasoning 0 Likes